how much do you charge?
where are you located and how far are you willing to travel?
I am located near Waco, Texas but I will perform weddings almost anywhere! I mainly offer my services to any area within a 2 hour driving range of Waco, but I have performed many weddings in New York; and even in some Canadian provinces! If you need me to travel then that can definitely be arranged, we would just need to discuss it.
can i write my own vows? or can you write my vows for me?
Yes and yes! This is something that we'll discuss the first time that we speak/meet.
Do you perform formal or casual weddings?
I can be as formal or as casual as you like! Some couples like to feel like royalty on their special day, some couples like to be barefoot and free-spirited, and others like a little bit of both. I love to customize, be flexible, and be open to any changes. In the end what matters is that you get exactly what you like!
how much notice do you need?
As much as you feel like giving me! Please keep in mind that Texas has a mandatory 72 hour waiting period for after you file your application. This means that you must apply for the license more than 3 days before your wedding in order for your marriage to be legally valid.
will you help us elope?
Of course! If you would like to have a private ceremony with just the two of you, and then have a larger one with family/friends then I am happy to help you out with that too! Please be aware that you do not have to have a license to have a ceremony, but you do have to have the license in order for your marriage to be recognized as legal.
do you provide other services?
Yes! In addition to legal marriages I am also available for civil unions, vow renewals, baptisms, blessings, and end-of-life ceremonies.
do you perform religious ceremonies?
I am happy to give it a dedicated try, but for a truly religious ceremony you would probably do better to contact a local minister, rabbi, or priestess/priest. If you are looking for a religious "ingredient" for your ceremony then I would be happy to speak further with you.
are you LGBTQ+ friendly?
I can't imagine not being! Of course! I've volunteered and worked in LGBTQ+ causes in two different countries over the years and am a strong defender of all human rights.
what about a themed ceremony?
Absolutely! I love individualizing ceremonies to make them special and memorable for you! Star Trek, Star Wars, Zombie, Superhero, Steam Punk, and Country... I do it all and many more!
do you work with the bdsm/leather community?
Sure do! We can be as celebratory or discrete as you like and ceremonies can be legally binding or not. Everything from a full out Collaring ceremony to small touches inserted into your ceremony just to keep it between you two, I'm happy to help out!
Do we both have to have rings? Is it ok if only one of us or neither of us exchange rings?
Totally your call. If you'd like a ceremony that doesn't include a ring exchange, that's no problem.
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