When it comes to cliches, the sky's the limit. 

Because sometimes, out of the clear blue sky drops the thing, or the person, we've been waiting for, whether we know we've been waiting for them or not!  

But cliches are cliches for a reason. Many of them have a kernel of truth! (Although, I'm not sure where the truth or the kernel are in "kernel of truth"?)  

So, here's my list of some love-themed cliches that are words to live by, questionable and just plain "out there" 

Take this advice to heart:
"You can't pour from an empty cup".
In other words, if you don't love, respect and take care of yourself, how can you love, respect or care for anyone else?  You need to treat yourself better, or at least as well as you would treat the people you care about and hold dear.  That isn't selfish.  Is it selfish to make a pot of tea and then offer a friend a cup while you sit and enjoy it with them?  You need to make the large pot yourself in order to have it to offer.  If you're sitting there with an empty cup yourself, you have nothing to offer them. 

"If you love something, set it free.  If it doesn't come back, it wasn't meant to be".
Experience talking here, trust me.  If someone you love finds themselves urgently drawn to having to leave for some reason; they want to backpack around Europe for a summer, they want to teach English in Korea, they need to tie up loose ends on an old relationship... whatever it is, if they're drawn to it for compelling reasons that they may not even be able to explain, let them go.  You aren't being a doormat, because, as painful as it may be to let them do this, it's something they need to do for whatever reason.  They may be internally torn apart over leaving you, too, but feel that this is something they NEED to do, but still aren't sure why.  If you offer up an ultimatum, you'll never get you way even if you think you did in the beginning.  Do you want to be 10 or 20 or 40 years into a relationship and find out your partner holds still feels incomplete because they never did this "thing" they've always felt they needed to do? Do you want to feel like you kept someone you love from some sort of inner peace and happiness.  Do you want to be the reason they feel like a small part of them is incomplete? Or that they've had a perpetual question mark hanging over their head for years?
In another vein, do you want to be the smothering type? Do you want your partner to feel like you're trying to control them, their every move and their entire life at the times you aren't together?  They'll feel like you don't trust them and like they aren't able to make a responsible, adult, independent decision. 
Either way, holding on too tightly, is bad news.  

I'll be contemplating more cliches and posting again soon!  Until then, let me know what you think! Comment, post or e-mail to get in touch and until then, I'll be

At your service, 
Rev. Poppy Lynn

Which, of course, many people consider "THE wedding month"!

First, let me say a big THANK YOU to everyone that's reading. Whether you're new here, or finally coming our from under your COVID slumber, I'm glad to have you here!

For those that are new to my blog, welcome, welcome, welcome!  I won't say I'll be blogging every day and I certainly won't be clogging up your feeds with ads or messages.  

A lot of what I chat about is, obviously, regarding weddings, marriage and relationships. 

But I get off topic occasionally, so weddings and ceremonies are definitely on the list of topics, but not the only thing on the list!

But, I'm really glad you're here! And I hope you've made it through the COVID plague and are doing OK. Maybe a little pale, maybe feeling a little less strong  and missing the hello and goodbye hugs from people you know and love.  

But that's OK.  

Despite the occasional spike of bad news, hopefully we're starting to see the light and come through to the other side.  

Or at least come up long enough to grab a deep breath of air and fill your lungs!  

Feel the life begin to pulse through you and welcome back to the great weather! The birds tweeting every morning, the beautiful, shaggy clouds in the intense blue sky, the speed at which every plant seems to grow. It's beautiful out there and, if not now a good time to marry, then, when?  

​Even with social distancing, masks, and frequent hand washing, a wedding can still be awesome! Together, you and I can figure out a perfect ceremony that's still memorable, fun and unique to you. 

Call me to discuss any needs or questions and I plan to be back blogging (bigger and better) soon!

At your service, 
​Rev. Poppy